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Welcome to my website/blog!

Round two of my website, after losing some intense writing previously due to a bug; I know now how to backup my files in more ways.

The purpose of this site is for me but also to share a part of my journey with you.

I am a survivor of multiple traumas. Writing about trauma can be incredibly hard on someone emotionally, mentally and even physically but also healing. I am still in healing and some things that happen are like scars we wear but we learn to transmute those scars into beautiful birthmarks; a part of who we are, showing our strength to overcome.

Embedded within traumatic experiences is the aftermath. A trauma doesn’t just happen and go away. There is a rippling after effect. Some may bury this and when the time is right it comes to the surface, others may more consciously and proactively seek help for it all.

I have been both; The one who buried and the one who determinedly stepped forward to overcome. I don’t believe in romanticising trauma; but some of us who have been through it did not always have a choice with what was happening. Healthy connections are always better.

Love is patient, Love is kind..

This site is one avenue I will be sharing a piece of me and my journey. Some relating to my healing, some not. Some poetry, some casual fun blogging. Please respect my content by not copying. I have spent years on social media on and off, sharing different parts of me and I know what I have shared has helped people sometimes. My instagram disappeared with over a thousand posts so there is that too. This website is a space of original content by me, so I’d like it to stay with only me.

My journey has been really hard at times, but my identity is not in trauma. I have a strong spirit, but ultimately I am #Godsgirl; like a pheonix rising from the flames (even if I am laying down lol).

The Holy spirit my light. Maybe you too have been through the fire, God can reach us all.

I hope if anything by this site you are inspired and if you are not, someone else may inspire you. Life can be short or feel long but I plan for eternity not retirement which is why I connect with and have a relationship with God. I desire to listen to his leading in life.

I am like most girls in some ways; I would love to meet the right person, but for now I am single and it is a part of my path. People can nurse some serious demons; they can be set free from these as well; I want to live for Gods will; not the enemies, knowing that where I go after I die is the most important thing.

Maybe you agree , maybe you don’t.

I can only share a peice of me….